Jumat, 15 Oktober 2021

Anwar defends MOU with Malaysian government, cautions against early polls - The Straits Times

KUALA LUMPUR - Malaysian opposition leader Anwar Ibrahim has defended the memorandum of understanding (MOU) reached between his Pakatan Harapan coalition and the government led by Prime Minister Ismail Sabri Yaakob, insisting that it led to parliamentary reforms and an agreement to implement the new lower voting age before the end of the year.

But Datuk Seri Anwar stressed that many contentious issues remained on the table, particularly over the issue of corruption, and warned that PH support for the upcoming budget later this month was far from guaranteed.

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2021-10-15 21:00:00Z
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Fatal stabbing of British lawmaker declared as a terrorist incident - CNA

The fatal stabbing of British Member of Parliament David Amess was a terrorist incident, police said on Saturday (Oct 16), at they investigated the second killing of a UK politician while meeting voters since 2016.

The Metropolitan Police said its preliminary findings had revealed "a potential motivation linked to Islamist extremism".

Amess, a 69-year-old pro-Brexit Conservative lawmaker, was stabbed to death inside a church on Friday while holding a fortnightly consultation with his constituents in the small town of Leigh-on-Sea, in Essex, east of London.

Police arrested a 25-year-old man at the scene on suspicion of murder and recovered a knife.

Essex police said officers had responded "within minutes" to reports of the stabbing shortly after 12.05pm local time (7.05pm Singapore time) and arrived to find Amess had "suffered multiple injuries".

Paramedics fought to save his life on the floor of the church - where a sign says "All are welcome here: Where old friends meet and strangers feel at home" - but in vain.

"This was a difficult incident, but our officers and paramedics from the East of England Ambulance Service worked extremely hard to save Sir David," Harrington said.

"Tragically he died at the scene."

A father of five who was first elected to parliament in 1983, Amess was memorialised with an impromptu evening mass while tributes poured in from across the political spectrum and around the world.

Multiple UK media outlets, citing sources, reported that the suspect was believed to be a British national with Somali heritage.

"The investigation is in its very early stages and is being led by officers from the specialist counter-terrorism command," Ben-Julian Harrington, Essex police's chief constable, told reporters.

"We made it clear at the time of the incident that we did not believe there was any immediate further threat to anyone else in the area," Harrington said.

"MUCH-LOVED"

The killing has sent shockwaves around Britain.

Flags were lowered to half-mast in Westminster as tributes were paid to Amess, whose death came five years after the murder of Labour party MP Jo Cox by a far-right extremist.

In a book last year called Ayes & Ears: A Survivor's Guide to Westminster, Amess noted that Cox's death had prompted new security guidance to lawmakers that threatened to limit their access to constituents.

"This sort of thing just was not supposed to happen in the UK," he wrote about Cox's killing.

"These increasing attacks have rather spoilt the great British tradition of the people openly meeting their elected politicians."

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2021-10-16 00:01:00Z
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British lawmaker stabbed to death at voter meeting in church - CNA

LEIGH-ON-SEA, England: A British lawmaker was stabbed to death on Friday (Oct 15) in a church by a 25-year-old man who lunged at him at a meeting with voters from his constituency, knifing him repeatedly in an attack which politicians described as an assault on democracy.

David Amess, a 69-year-old lawmaker from Prime Minister Boris Johnson's Conservative Party, was attacked at around midday at a meeting at the red-brick Belfairs Methodist Church in Leigh-on-Sea, east of London.

Paramedics fought to save his life on the floor of the church - where a sign says "All are welcome here: where old friends meet and strangers feel at home" - but in vain.

"He was treated by emergency services but, sadly, died at the scene," police said. "A 25-year-old man was quickly arrested after officers arrived at the scene on suspicion of murder and a knife was recovered."

Armed police swooped on the church and detectives said they were not looking for anyone else in connection with the incident. There was no detail about a motive for the attack.

"He was stabbed several times," John Lamb, a local councillor at the scene, told Reuters.

Colleagues from across parliament expressed their shock and paid tribute to Amess, one of Britain's longest-serving lawmakers who held regular meetings with voters on the first and third Friday of the month, saying he was diligent in his duties to his local area.

Flags in Downing Street were lowered in tribute.

Amess, married with five children, was first elected to parliament to represent Basildon in 1983, and then stood for Southend West in 1997. He was knighted by Queen Elizabeth for his public service in 2015.

His website listed his main interests as "animal welfare and pro-life issues". He was popular with lawmakers and known for his active contributions to debates - often about issues relating to his Essex constituency or animal rights.

In his last contribution to the House of Commons last month, he asked for a debate about animal welfare.

TRAGIC DAY FOR DEMOCRACY

The stabbing at a meeting with constituents has echoes of a 2010 incident when Labour lawmaker Stephen Timms survived a stabbing in his constituency office, and the 2016 fatal shooting of Labour's Jo Cox just days before the Brexit referendum.

"Attacking our elected representatives is an attack on democracy itself," Cox's husband, Brendan, said on Twitter. "There is no excuse, no justification. It is as cowardly as it gets.

"This brings everything back. The pain, the loss, but also how much love the public gave us following the loss of Jo. I hope we can do the same for David now."

The speaker of the House of Commons said the security of lawmakers would have to discussed.

"This is an incident that will send shockwaves across the parliamentary community and the whole country," Lindsay Hoyle said. "In the coming days we will need to discuss and examine MPs’ security."

As news of the attack emerged, Prime Minister Johnson rushed back to London from a meeting in Bristol, western England. Colleagues said Amess was a gentle man and cast him as a true gentleman.

"Heartbreaking to hear of the death of Sir David Amess," former Prime Minister Theresa May said. "A decent man and respected parliamentarian, killed in his own community while carrying out his public duties. A tragic day for our democracy."

Johnson's wife, Carrie, said she was devastated.

"Absolutely devastating news about Sir David Amess. He was hugely kind and good," she said on Twitter. "An enormous animal lover and a true gent. This is so completely unjust."

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SIA to add passenger service to all weekly flights to Sydney in line with NSW border reopening - The Straits Times

SINGAPORE - Flag carrier Singapore Airlines (SIA) will be adding passenger service on all of its weekly flights between Singapore and Sydney, in line with the border reopening in Australia's New South Wales next month.

SIA is currently operating just one passenger flight a day to Sydney, with other flights operating as cargo-only.

But from Nov 1, all of its 17 weekly flights between Singapore and Sydney will be eligible for passenger sales for those that meet the eligibility criteria.

The move is not expected to affect international travellers for the time being, given that Australia's borders remain closed to them.

The New South Wales state, which has Sydney as its capital, said on Friday (Oct 15) that it will allow fully vaccinated citizens and permanent residents from overseas to come in from Nov 1 without the need for quarantine.

Prior to this, Australia as a country had been implementing strict border controls to control the Covid-19 pandemic.

Measures included two weeks of mandatory hotel quarantine, as well as limits on the number of people entering the country.

SIA said in a statement issued in Australia on Friday that it welcomes the plans to reopen New South Wales' borders.

It said it will open sales on its flights between Singapore and Sydney for eligible customers from Saturday, 3pm local time (12pm Singapore time). This will support the return of more Australians and the reunification of family and friends, SIA added.

Eligibility for the SIA's Australia flights will be determined by the Australian Government.

But travellers must meet minimum requirements of being an Australian citizen or a permanent resident, be vaccinated with two doses of an approved Covid-19 vaccine, and have a vaccine certificate that meets Australia's requirements.

SIA regional vice-president for South West Pacific Louis Arul said: "This paves the way for many Australians to return home, but more detail is needed on how to facilitate unvaccinated passengers within the revised international arrival caps that will come into effect from Nov 1."

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Out-of-practice airline pilots are making errors back in the air - Yahoo Singapore News

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By Angus Whitley and Anurag Kotoky

(Bloomberg) — Back in the cockpit after time off recovering from Covid-19, an airline pilot forgot to start his plane’s second engine for takeoff, a mistake that could have ended in disaster if he hadn’t aborted the flight.

Another pilot, fresh from a seven-month layoff because of the pandemic and descending to land early in the morning, realised almost too late he hadn’t lowered the wheels and pulled out of the approach just 800 feet (240 metres) from the tarmac.

Weeks earlier, a passenger plane leaving a busy airport headed off in the wrong direction, flown by a captain who was back on deck for the first time in more than six months.

These potentially disastrous errors all took place in the U.S. in recent months as pilots returned to work. In every case, crew blamed their oversight on a shortage of flying during Covid, the most deadly pandemic since the 1918 influenza outbreak and certainly the only one to have wreaked such havoc on what was a burgeoning global aviation industry.

The incidents are among dozens of mistakes, confidentially declared by out-of-practice pilots since the start of the pandemic, that are stored on a low-profile database designed to identify emerging safety threats. The monitoring program, funded by the Federal Aviation Administration, is decades old but is now flashing warning signs as planes return to the skies across the world.

Deep cuts by airlines left some 100,000 pilots globally working skeleton hours or on long-term leave, according to consulting firm Oliver Wyman. Many haven’t flown for more than 18 months. But as rising vaccination rates allow travel to resume, concerns are growing that a lack of proficiency, confidence, or simply one moment of forgetfulness could lead to tragedy.

“It is really a critical situation,” said Uwe Harter, a grounded Airbus SE A380 pilot for Deutsche Lufthansa AG who’s also the executive vice president for technical and safety standards at the International Federation of Air Line Pilots’ Associations. “The last thing the industry needs now is a bad accident.”

While some airlines are providing pilots with adequate retraining, others are offering “the bare minimum,” if anything at all, said Harter, who himself hasn’t flown since February 2020. “The regulations that we have aren’t sufficient.”

It’s not as if authorities are blind to this. The International Civil Aviation Organization, which sets industry standards, and the International Air Transport Association have seen the risks looming for months. Both bodies, as well as Europe’s top aviation regulator, have published detailed training guides to help airlines transition out-of-practice pilots back into the air.

But interviews with pilots from Asia and Europe — and the database of anonymous accounts in the U.S. — reveal varying degrees of ability and confidence among those who have returned to duty, including pilots who have completed retraining programs.

That’s partly because no amount of classroom or virtual theory, or practice in a flight simulator, can replicate the real-life pressures of a cockpit. Nor do these preparations fully take into account the psychological, emotional and financial stresses from the pandemic weighing on airline crew.

Aviation has largely been defined by its colossal financial losses — US$138 billion last year alone and another US$52 billion expected in 2021 — since Covid brought travel to a standstill. As the industry tries to claw back some of its lost revenue, managing the safety risks posed by returning pilots is an additional burden and one that airlines with stronger balance sheets have the luxury of handling more proficiently than others.

The scale of the problem is partly documented on the U.S. Aviation Safety Reporting System, the database of safety incidents voluntarily reported by pilots, crew and air-traffic controllers.

The pilot who tried to get airborne on one engine in December last year said in his report that his recovery from a Covid infection was “heavy on my mind” and contributed to his “lack of focus.” The ASRS reports don’t name the crew, airlines or airports involved.

Flight Safety Foundation, a Virginia-based not-for-profit group that advises the aviation industry, said it’s aware of the incidents on the ASRS database and is monitoring the situation globally. “The more we know about potential safety issues, the better we are able to mitigate the risk,” Flight Safety Foundation President and Chief Executive Officer Hassan Shahidi said.

In a line of work where there’s little room for professional error, the dangers become stark. While most of the mistakes are minor — they include flying momentarily at the incorrect altitude or speed, or taxiing across a runway in the wrong place — some of the worst aviation disasters are rooted in seemingly inconsequential missteps.

And worryingly, the number of incidents tied to a lack of pilot proficiency climbed almost immediately after the pandemic began to disrupt commercial flying schedules, according to a February study by the Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University in Arizona.

Rajee Olaganathan, an assistant professor at the university, found one such ASRS report in the eight months before March 2020, then 10 in the next eight months. All of them referred to problems landing the aircraft. In one, a pilot described approaching the runway with too much altitude. “I wasn’t at the comfort level I would have liked,” he wrote.

Olaganathan said her findings show airlines need to educate pilots about skill deterioration and build suitably tailored training programs. But crew also need to be candid about their abilities. “Pilots need to make an honest assessment of their skills and confidence upon returning to work,” she said in an interview.

The obvious dangers posed by poor pilots, even before Covid, have made the job one of the most strictly controlled on the planet. United Nations agency ICAO usually requires pilots undergo two proficiency checks every 12 months and perform three takeoffs and landings every 90 days. They’re also subject to examinations from doctors specializing in aviation medicine.

When the pandemic began, ICAO allowed airlines flexibility in meeting these rules because the virus was devastating enough, as long as carriers incorporated other safeguards. But with flying on its way back, the Montreal-based agency says it’s becoming less lenient.

“There’s going to be a point beyond which you can’t stretch standards,” said Ian Knowles, a technical officer within ICAO’s air navigation bureau, which leads the agency’s response to crises. “Standards are there for a reason.”

Even so, ICAO is still offering 41 exemptions from the standards in 11 countries including Cambodia, Nigeria and Pakistan, according to its website. Air Niugini in Papua New Guinea, for example, has been allowed to stretch its pilot-proficiency checks to 12-month intervals because Covid restrictions make it difficult to access flight simulators in nearby Australia and Singapore. Pilots at the airline must instead undergo more theoretical and practical training to compensate, details of the exemption show.

Knowles, who was a British Airways pilot before joining ICAO, concedes that just meeting ICAO requirements is no guarantee of performance.

“You could still be needing that extra edge,” he said. “There is a certain loss of confidence and ability that comes with even maintaining the very bare minimum.”

It’s this element of human variation that makes it hard for regulators to get a handle on the risks posed by recently returned pilots, and the many who are yet to make a comeback.

While commercial flying in the U.S. is 17% off normal levels, activity in Western Europe remains down 35%, according to OAG. The shortfalls are even greater in the Middle East, Southern Africa and Southeast Asia, where many international borders remain shut.

In interviews, some pilots who have returned to work report a loss of the muscle memory that once helped them follow procedures on the flight deck without pause. Others wonder if they still possess the clear-mindedness to handle a mid-air crisis.

A senior pilot for Qantas Airways Ltd., who spoke on condition of anonymity, said colleagues who haven’t flown for six months typically make one or two minor procedural errors on their return.

They might forget to enter data into the flight computer at the appropriate time, or land the plane harder than normal, the pilot said. Actions that were once immediate and instinctive require more time and thought. That’s after refresher sessions in a flight simulator, the pilot said.

“If there’s an engine failure or a fire, then you have to implement that procedure,” said Amit Singh, a former head of pilot training at Indian airline IndiGo who founded not-for-profit organization Safety Matters. “If you haven’t flown for a long time, it may take you a few minutes or seconds extra.”

Despite the mistakes made by pilots since the pandemic, IATA, major regulators and some of the largest airlines insist the risks are under control.

“As the crisis has continued, mitigations to risks that emerged over the past 18 months are getting stronger and more robust,” IATA’s safety director Mark Searle said.

The FAA said in a statement that its “comprehensive data-driven safety oversight system enables the agency to detect risks and address problems early, including any that may result from pilots returning to work after Covid-related furloughs.”

And American Airlines Group Inc. and Delta Air Lines Inc., two of the biggest U.S. carriers, say their pilot training exceeds regulatory requirements.

The European Union Aviation Safety Agency, meanwhile, said it had identified “a small number” of incidents potentially linked to pilot proficiency. Although it warned of the dangers when pilots lose even a little flying ability in August, EASA said in a statement it sees no need for further action.

Yet crew who have come back on duty with little recent flying experience have already come close to disaster. In September last year, a Lion Air Group plane carrying 307 passengers veered off the runway after landing at Medan in northern Indonesia. The pilot had flown less than three hours in the previous 90 days.

No one was injured and it’s true that serious incidents in aviation in general remain very rare. There was just one major accident for every 5 million jet flights between 2016 and 2020, according to IATA’s latest Safety Report.

Evidence, however, suggests more oversight is needed in certain regions. Many of the safeguards against a lack of proficiency, such as rostering more-experienced crew in the cockpit and running additional simulator sessions, represent an additional cost — one that airlines under financial stress may struggle to foot.

Sydney-based Qantas, which has one of the strongest balance sheets of any airline despite the pandemic, dedicated an entire team to addressing pilot rustiness. Staff combed through research on other professions with similar skill sets to pilots and eventually found helpful parallels in surgery.

The research showed that the fine motor skills of surgeons withstood long periods out of theatre. But it was different when surgeons had to complete a list of procedures or apply previously acquired knowledge.

With that evidence, Qantas now puts its Boeing Co. 737 pilots through a six-day course before they get back in the sky, and a senior training captain sits in on their initial flights. The airline’s A380 pilots have two days of training on the ground and in the simulator every 90 days, even though Qantas hasn’t yet resumed flying the enormous jets.

“We realised very early on that we needed to think differently,” Qantas Chief Pilot Dick Tobiano said. “The data has shown that our pilots are coming back with the skills and confidence to do their job safely.”

At Indonesia’s Lion Air, however, a senior captain speaking on condition of anonymity said he’s so concerned about his colleagues’ flying ability that he’s scaled back his own flying hours. Indonesia has one of the world’s poorest safety records with 105 accidents and 2,356 related fatalities, worse than Mexico and Venezuela, Aviation Safety Network data from 1945 through October show.

The captain said he had to take over the controls approaching Semarang’s Ahmad Yani International Airport in Central Java during a flight mid last year. The junior pilot flying the plane hadn’t worked for three months and failed to notice the aircraft wasn’t locked into the airport’s landing guidance system. Lion Air didn’t respond to a request for comment.

That may sound minor but the number of badly executed landings worldwide — coming in too high and too fast, for instance — almost tripled from pre-pandemic levels to 35 out of every 1,000 by May 2020, according to the U.K.’s own confidential safety incident reporting program.

It’s important because more than half of all fatal commercial-jet accidents from 2011 through 2020 occurred on a plane’s final approach to landing or the landing itself, research from Boeing shows. At lower altitudes, pilots have limited height and therefore less time to recover from an error or mechanical failure.

Indeed, some of the errors declared by pilots in the ASRS database have echoes in the most grim airline disasters.

In June last year, a first officer for an airline in the U.S. who hadn’t flown in nearly three months forgot to switch on the anti-icing mechanism for the plane’s airspeed sensors. In 2009, those same sensors iced up and triggered the crash of Air France Flight 447 on its way to Paris from Rio de Janeiro, killing all 228 people aboard.

The solution, according to Lufthansa pilot Harter, involves going beyond the pre-pandemic standards of pilot proficiency. Rather than prescribing enough training to meet requirements, airlines and regulators must give crew whatever they need to feel comfortable again, whether that’s more time in a simulator or the acknowledgment there may be a mental component that extra rules can’t always adequately address.

“That’s the way forward,” he said. “And that’s not written in any regulation.”

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Durian sparks 'gas leak' emergency in Australia store - The Straits Times

SYDNEY (AFP) - Canberra firefighters rushed to a store in Australia's capital Friday (Oct 15) after reports of a gas leak - only to find that the smell was caused by the penetrating waft of durian fruit.

Emergency responders instructed the public to avoid the area as they hunted in vain for the source of the leak at the Dickson shopping precinct.

"After an hour on scene" Canberra's emergency services agency said: "The owner of a tenancy above the shops advised of the potential source of the incident.

"It was not a gas leak, but in fact a durian fruit. The fruit gives off a very pungent smell and can waft some distance."

Grown across tropical South-east Asia, fans love the "king of fruits" for its bitter-sweet flavours and creamy texture.

But those less fond of the pungent produce compare its odour to rotting garbage - or in this instance a gas leak - and it is banned from many hotels and on public transport.

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Too much? Malaysian comedian's 9-year-old son 'thrown out' of home after refusing to attend e-learning lesson - AsiaOne

Harith Iskander is often labeled as Malaysia's king of comedy but it seemed like many netizens did not see the comedic side of a recent post on his personal Facebook account.

In fact, it ruffled up a few feathers as the topic on hand was one that had the potential to get quite polarising – personal parenting style.

On Tuesday (Oct 12) evening, Harith revealed that the 'incident' was between his wife, Jezamine Lim, and their eldest son.

The 9-year-old boy is cooped up at home and attends school via a virtual platform. On Oct 11, Harith received a call from his son's teacher that the boy had logged out of his online maths lesson a little too early. 

It appeared that 10 minutes into an e-learning maths lesson, the child had enough and took matters into his own hands. He checked out and refused to return.

A pretty brave decision considering what was about to come next.

Though Harith is the usual disciplinarian at home, he decided to pass the mantle to his wife as she often chides him for being "overly harsh" on their son.

So far, so good. Nothing strange or out of order just yet. 

"I thought at most he will kena marah sikit (get scolded a bit) but Dr Jezamine Lim was not playing around and s*** hit the fan!" Harith wrote.

The boy was told by his mother to "pack his belongings" and "get out" until he understood what he did wrong.

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"He took a box and packed it with his favourite shirts, a pair of shoes, and his bicycle," Harith continued.

Pictorial evidence was provided in Harith's post and the boy looked dejected as he sat on a park bench looking out into the night.

Harith ended his post by cheekily mentioning that in the future, sticking to his discipline style instead of his wife's might be in his son's best interests. 

The post garnered 706 shares and 12,000 reactions.

Too harsh or no issues?

Here's the juicy bit, right? People going online to passionately debate on incidents that have little or nothing to do with them.

Many were uncomfortable with how Harith and his wife treated their child. One noted the possible long-term impact this experience could have on the child.

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Another went all in to fully criticise the couple on their "terrible parenting choice" and called out their actions as "pretty abusive".

Harith replied, stating that what happened with his son was a mere time-out and nothing more.

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The tough parenting style adopted by Harith and his wife isn't exactly a novel one, as shared by this netizen. They too did the same to their son back when he was around the same age.

According to the parent, the son has grown up needing to be constantly reassured of their love.

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However, there were also some who felt that being strict with children is an important aspect of parenting.

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They did add a caveat that punishments must come with conversations.

This is to have children understand that tough parenting does not equate to a lack of love.

ALSO READ: DJ Raymond Foong shares the secret to being a 'chill' dad to his 2 kids

amierul@asiaone.com

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